- What is the worst thing your peers can do to you?
kick me, hit me or hurt me physically in another way
make a fool out of me in front of others
gossip about my family or insult them
shout or swear at me
gossip about me
make fun of me
ignore or exclude me
other, namely
- What do you fall for when you're attracted to someone?
style of dressing
sense of humor
his/her face
intelligence
his/her body
personality, character, or charm
other, namely
- What do you do when you like someone and would like to go out with him/her?
smile at her/him a lot
try to kiss her/him
wait and see
let a friend tell her/him how I feel
try to become friends with a member of his/her family
go up to him/her and start a conversation
try to look extra nice
ask my parents to invite him/her or the whole family over
try to be around him/her as much as possible
tell him/her or write a note
try to become part of his/her circle of friends
other, namely
- What is the most important thing when going out with each other?
that we respect each other
that our parents approve of our going out with each other
that it is serious enough to lead to marriage
that we love each other
that we do nice things together
that we're faithful to each other
that we aren't jealous of one another
that we can completely trust each other
that we enjoy the pleasure of physical intimacy
that we think alike on many issues
that our families get along together
other, namely
- What do you enjoy doing the most in your free time?
listening to or making music
tv/computer/videogames
reading books, magazines or comic strips
working for extra money
doing sports
getting together with friends
other, namely
- What is the most characteristic feature of being young?
doing your best to achieve something
not being your own boss, grown-ups always have the last word
having to learn a lot of things
having a lot of freedom and doing what you feel like
having to go to school
not having too much to worry about
being uncertain about the future and all the choices you have to make
having an exciting and varied life
not having too many responsibilities
trying not to disappoint your family
other, namely
- What is the most characteristic feature of being grown up?
having more money
being responsible for caring for your family
being able to work instead of having to go to school
carrying a lot of responsibility
having a boring life, every day like the next one
being your own boss
not being taken care of
being able to have children
being listened to, being respected
other, namely
- What makes someone popular?
beautiful things and clothes
coming from a good family
having money
a sense of humor
being athletic
intelligence
modesty
their character or personality
chastity
spontaneity, sociability
attractiveness
considerate of others
other, namely
- What is the most important in life, when you think of the future?
a happy family life
a nice job
getting rich
inventing something important to mankind
enjoying life to the full
becoming famous
contribute towards a better society
other, namely
- What frightens you the most, when you think of the future?
not finding a job
disappointing my parents
leaving home
staying single
not marrying the person I want to marry
not having children
becoming ill
not achieving everything I want
other, namely
- How should working, child-raising and housekeeping be divided among men and women?
men have a job, women take care of the household and the children
women have a job, men take care of the household and the children
both men and women have a job, women take care of the household and the children
both men and women have a job, men take care of the household and the children
both share the task of working, child-raising and housekeeping
- Which problem would be your first priority, if you were in the government?
nature and the environment
unemployment
diseases such as cancer and AIDS
the differences among rich and poor
violence and crime
hunger
war
drugs
discrimination
other, namely
THANK YOU FOR HELPING US IN OUR RESEARCH!
The Mens team: Diana Issidorides, Irit Rosen, Peter Slavenburg[Back to the Mens zone]